by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 21/02/25 | Blog
You’re so caring! They’re an idiot for not wanting you,’ say the friends who want to boost you up when you’re feeling rejected. It’s often said with love, and reassurance that you are worthy and that it’s not your fault that things ended. And it’s true – you are...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 14/02/25 | Blog
You have had such good intentions, but despite your efforts, it frustratingly never goes very well. You know the people you dated in the past didn’t meet your needs, and you repeatedly promised yourself you’d never go through that ever again, and yet it has kept on...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 24/09/24 | Blog
Most People Don’t Know They Have Complex PTSD Do you have complex PTSD? I was already working with a trauma practitioner when I found out I did. Once we’d gone through the initial assessment period I was told ‘you have complex PTSD as a result of your...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 22/07/24 | Blog
The Challenge of Maintaining Relationships as a High Achieving Trauma Survivor We need people. But when people have traumatised us, that often makes accessing deep connection more challenging. Even if we’ve hit the friends or partner(s) jackpot, trauma can mean we’re...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 25/06/24 | Blog
The coaching industry is one of the things that freed me, but it’s also rife with toxic practices, concepts, and just general nonsense. Toxic positivity is one such thing; any problem can supposedly be blasted with enough positivity to simply suppress or destroy the...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 25/04/24 | Blog
Sharing aloud with someone what you’ve been through is sometimes a scarier thought than just continuing to live in silence with what you’ve been through, and the challenging after effects of that history. I want to share with you the most common reasons I hear from...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 05/04/24 | Blog
(7 minute read) There are many wonderful ways you can work with someone to permanently treat your trauma, but I want to share with you how I do it so you know what to expect. Treating your trauma can be a daunting process, so I want to make sure you have enough...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 03/04/24 | Blog
I almost married my worst abuser. I was young, I already believed I was damaged goods, and, typical of abusers, he confirmed this was the case, explicitly, over and over again. We were engaged, and I was happy to be chosen at all. Given how I already felt and what he...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 14/03/24 | Blog
Sure, the first time you share your traumas aloud with another person to witness you, is pretty significant. Some of the shame dies then, as you realise that what’s happened to you doesn’t make you disgusting or unlovable. That person witnessing you, if they’re good,...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 29/11/23 | Blog
You can heal and thrive, despite an earlier life of trauma. I’m Harris, the founder of the Center for Childhood Trauma Healing, and I’m thrilled to introduce a revolutionary program designed to bring affordable and effective treatment to those seeking to...
