by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 17/04/25 | Blog
You could take a whole masterclass on communication. You could word your needs like a love & light baby angel with a conflict-resolution diploma. And guess what? They’d still pull away. Not because you said the wrong thing. But because your nervous system is...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 15/04/25 | Blog
You’ve done therapy. You’ve read the books. You’ve watched enough TikToks about attachment styles to qualify for an honorary psych degree. So why the f*ck are you still dating people who treat you like a backup charger? Here’s the truth no one’s telling you: 💥 It’s...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 10/04/25 | Blog
Having avoidant attachment on its own is not a personality disorder; it’s a relational pattern. And therefore it could change.And usually, if you’re having challenges with avoidant people, it’s because you’re an anxious/disorganised attacher yourself. This results in...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 08/04/25 | Blog
When you’re in a relationship with someone abusive and narcissistic, getting out can often feel like pulling yourself out of the grand canyon using only your little finger. But you’ve done it, and thank god. And then the confusing roller coaster of dating avoidant...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 05/04/25 | Blog
You’ve fought long and hard for your wins. For yourself. You’ve gone above and beyond to create the change you’ve needed. You’re a doer. Because of your efforts, you’ve already got a lot to be proud of. You’ve come such a long way from where you started. Keep going....
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 03/04/25 | Blog
You’re done hanging around and making tiny changes at a time. You want bigger change more quickly. To rip the bandaid off. What if you had 5 nights and 4 days to completely transform an area of your life? Space to just concentrate on you, with the support of myself...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 01/04/25 | Blog
You’re self-aware, you’ve done the self-development and therapy. You don’t need to understand, rationalise or intellectualise yourself anymore.You know what your challenges are and you can explain them very well.You’re ready for answers, change, and to genuinely move...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 29/03/25 | Blog
It’s really common to have a polarised relationship with anger. Either it pops up more often than we’d like, or we’ve been conditioned to disconnect from it, and even fear it. Being angry can invoke a lot of shame as it tries to protect us from pain, at any cost. Or...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 27/03/25 | Blog
What you need to know…If, like me, you’ve spent years learning about anxiety, how to handle it, how to explain it to other people, medicating it, doing daily things to manage it…you may be operating under the same misconceptions I was for twenty...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 25/03/25 | Blog
So many of my clients believe that their challenging relationships could be turned around, if only they could explain the issue with just the right combination of words. The most common symptom of relational trauma is trying to win the love of the wrong people. To...
