by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 10/03/25 | Blog
If you attended my workshop today ‘Escaping the Toxic Relationship Cycle; Find Your Dream Relationship Blueprint’, you should now have an understanding of why your story has unfolded as it has so far… …and what you can do about it. (Replay available tomorrow in case...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 06/03/25 | Blog
If you’re over feeling hopeless, numb or disenchanted by the subject of love, I am personally inviting you to my next online workshop where you’ll discover: Which relationship patterns are keeping you stuck, and why, despite your commitment to making better...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 04/03/25 | Blog
You do deserve the love everyone else seems to find so easily. You’re not broken or incomplete for not having it, and it’s okay to want it.The number of weddings I’ve gone to in the last ten years, with the only plus one I ever had being my much younger brother, I...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 28/02/25 | Blog
It’s sensible to take a step back from relationships when the cycle keeps repeating. You’ve been self-compassionate enough to not put yourself through that mess again!It’s not your fault that the cycle has repeated itself so many times. It’s the best you could manage...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 27/02/25 | Blog
Someone taught you that you could only be loved and safe by putting others first. By supporting them with their problems, even if those problems hurt you. Even if your support of them cost you. Lost time, lost care, lost money, lost relationships with other people....
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 25/02/25 | Blog
I’m not suggesting you need to turn into a bitch. Or that everyone’s attracted to bitchy people. I’m saying that in the grand scale of things, someone being at least a bit more self-interested is way more magnetic than being a people-pleaser. Somewhere along the way...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 21/02/25 | Blog
You’re so caring! They’re an idiot for not wanting you,’ say the friends who want to boost you up when you’re feeling rejected. It’s often said with love, and reassurance that you are worthy and that it’s not your fault that things ended. And it’s true – you are...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 14/02/25 | Blog
You have had such good intentions, but despite your efforts, it frustratingly never goes very well. You know the people you dated in the past didn’t meet your needs, and you repeatedly promised yourself you’d never go through that ever again, and yet it has kept on...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 24/09/24 | Blog
Most People Don’t Know They Have Complex PTSD Do you have complex PTSD? I was already working with a trauma practitioner when I found out I did. Once we’d gone through the initial assessment period I was told ‘you have complex PTSD as a result of your...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 22/07/24 | Blog
The Challenge of Maintaining Relationships as a High Achieving Trauma Survivor We need people. But when people have traumatised us, that often makes accessing deep connection more challenging. Even if we’ve hit the friends or partner(s) jackpot, trauma can mean we’re...
