You’re always giving.
You show up. You hold space.
You’re the emotional IKEA of relationships—convenient, reliable, and always fixing sh*t.
And what do you get in return?
Crumbs. Vibes. “I’m just going through a lot right now” texts.
Because being selfless isn’t love—it’s a performance.
One your nervous system learned to do when it thought,
“If I make myself small, I’ll be safe.”
“If I earn it, maybe they’ll stay.”
Here’s a hard truth with a side of sass:
Selflessness isn’t a virtue if it’s rooted in fear.
It’s just codependency in a halo.
Wanna see where your over-giving is secretly f*cking you over?
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