If your dating history looks like a graveyard of ghosters, slow-faders, and emotionally stunted exes…
It might not just be “bad luck.”
Hot take:
Your hyper-independence is basically a neon sign that says “I won’t need sh*t from you emotionally!”
And avoidant people are like, “Wow. Perfect. I can coast and never be vulnerable.”
You attract what your nervous system is a match for.
And if your vibe screams “Don’t worry, I’ll emotionally starve myself so you don’t have to feel overwhelmed”… guess who’s showing up?
Yup. Mr. “Sorry I was busy for 3 days”
And Ms. “I just need space indefinitely but please keep texting me.”
Want to know why your energy is low-key inviting emotional tumbleweeds?
Click the button below and take the Relational Health Questionnaire so you can see what your patterns are actually broadcasting.